Sky Boss

So last night at a barbecue, I met a very interesting woman. No don’t worry I haven’t gone straight- ha. But then saying that, she and I had a very interesting chat about sexuality. She told me very openly about her experiences with women, but was very confident that this didn’t make her gay, in fact she wasn’t in anyway concerned with trying to label the experiences. They were just things that had happened. Sky Boss also had to admit that he has had experiences with women! Gasp! Don’t worry, little smutster- this rough raw and ready sex pig is still very gay. But what does that even mean? In our modern Western world it feels like it has long been accepted that women will have sexual experiences with other women, and nobody will think to label them as gay or straight or bi. However, modern Western society is much more obsessed with male sexuality and labelling it. It seems that a man cannot have an experience with another man without everybody jumping to declare that he is gay-...

Is it possible to still be romantic and be a sex pig? Since starting to write this blog I have been exploring erotica and romance on Amazon, I have been reading lots about these subjects. I have recently finished reading many beautiful MM romance novels, whilst I find many of them are very heteronormative, I can’t deny that there is something very special about falling in love. But is it possible to lead the sort of life that I want to lead and to be romantic? In the world of romance on Amazon it often seems as if romance can ONLY exist between two people, particularly if they’re basically behaving in tried and tested gender roles. In recent months I’ve had a lot of sex with a loss of men, it dawned on me last night that I’ve not been on a date in nearly a year! So last night at the sauna – in all honesty I didn’t really want to go but had my arm twisted by my buddy – I met this incredibly handsome Thai guy. We met in the darkroom, it was incredibly horny, one of th...